so me and my gf had been dating for close to 6 years and her and i had been through soo many things together... we started dating in highschool and pretty much dated all through university doing long distance of about an hour, until she graduated this past apri. By this point we had decided to move in together and had even been looking up places and everything, we'd been planin on traveling and stuff too. Begining of may rolls around and she goes away with her mom and sister out west to visit some family for a week or so. she comes back and informs me that she wants to move out there and look for work in september instead of moving in together like we had planned. At first i was like wtf and we were very very close to breaking up, i was obviously pissed but eventually i came around and suported her.. got a place with some buddies and everything was golden the rest of the summer. We went away together, partied and had a blast. I thought for sure we would be fine despite the huge obstacle distance would be throwing at us. We then planned on me moving out there in april and traveling and then getting a place in calgary. Sept rolls around... i help her pack, we have our last days together, everything is still golden at this point. I even take her to airport and shes all crying and stuff telling me how much she loves me and that she will miss me so much. So three weeks go by and we're on the phone talking and she being weird and shit.... like depresed or somthing... so i ask her wats wrong a few times and finally she spills the beans... "i wanna break up.. i wanna be on my own.. its not u its me....ur a great BF but i need to be on my own.. etc" so im like wtf why wouldnt u do it three months ago. So we said our goodbyes and that was it.Three weeks across the country from me and she throws it all away. needless to say i feel like shit and cant sleep, eat or study... hardest thing ive ever done. wat are your thoughts on this situation... what whent wrong.. i dont get it.. im pissed off and confused...
