I think you always have the "desire" to sleep with other girls...but, at some point...at least for most of us, the risk of losing what you have outweighs the fun of "new."
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I think you always have the "desire" to sleep with other girls...but, at some point...at least for most of us, the risk of losing what you have outweighs the fun of "new."
It will probably hit you like a sack of shit one day, and you realize that sleeping around isnt as fun as it once was. And you just dont feel good doing it. I am sure we have all been there at one point or another. It takes a lot of maturity to be in a serious long term relationship.. and if your not ready.. your not ready. Simple as that.
Im not married yet.. but been with my girl for quite some time.. And i couldn't ever imagine byself being single again..
settling down or just settling, i dont see hugh heffnar settling down lol
^that's because he hasn't met anyone like my wife.
apparently he`s engaged...Quote:
Originally Posted by JacktheThriller
America's No. 1 bachelor, Hugh Hefner, has finally found a woman he wants to settle down with. Hugh, 84, gave his girlfriend Crystal Harris, 24, an engagement ring for Christmas.
^^ that is such bullshit though. After hes banged hundreds of playmates he ready to settle down? give me a break. hes still gonna be banging other girls on the side till hes dead.
Interesting thread :)
This is my 2 cents,
I understand what the men in monogomous relationships are saying. I read what one person said who was being completely honest or at least self aware enough to be honest on this subject I believe.
We're animals. We're programmed to "spread our seed" and "survival of the fittest" so to speak. Men are predisposed to "cheat." We just at some point accept that the risk/reward is not there anymore an then try our best to stick to it for life! This is based on our belief system which is so ingrained in our culture due to religion. We've created this world. We're our own worst enemies!
I'm not calling anyone a liar who says they don't want to cheat I'm just saying they've accepted monogomy for fear of losing the girl they love if they "cheat."
If our society was not set up the way it is or if that persons wife/girlfiend gave them the green light they would. Men who say they wouldn't are lying because their smart enough to know when to lie.lol
Like another person alluded to some are in committed relationships without being monogomous. That works for them and is rigorously honest.
For myself personally, I could never share my girl with another man. I'm extremely territorial like that. Thats literally how people get killed in crimes of passion. I think that is innate as well. We want to protect our woman. Thats a "no fly zone" for any other man.
I'm a complete hypocrite however. :) I would love to have a heirom.lol Its never going to happen though.lol I don't cheat.
This part some might find controversial but here are the cards I've been dealt :
My girlfriend is bisexual. She considers it cheating if I am not there if she is with another woman. When she told me that it was like winning the lottery. We've only been going out for a short time so it is not anything I'm interested in pursuing until I've fallen in love with her but its comforting to know that the option is there in the years to come if we decide to spend our lives together.
I've always had very strong morals and have had to redefined them somewhat in my mind but yet to act on them.
Cheating is not acceptable ever. You don't do that to someone you care about.
Its a rock and a hard place for some.
He HAS settled down. He's only with 7 different girls! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by JacktheThriller
lol you would know... based on your experiences with girls im guessing your planning on becoming the next hugh ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by #8