Trust

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Originally Posted by #8

^^ if you want to get it back to that level you are going to have to sacrifice lots of good times that might make her question your loyalties. if you REALLY want to make it work you're gonna have to make her your number one priority over your own fun.

i cant do that. im far too selfish

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orrr you can just take her with you so she can see you behaving?

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Originally Posted by #8

^^ if you want to get it back to that level you are going to have to sacrifice lots of good times that might make her question your loyalties. if you REALLY want to make it work you're gonna have to make her your number one priority over your own fun.

i cant do that. im far too selfish

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isnt' that what a relstionship is about.....going out and having fun together. Of course doing your own things is great as well not everything has to be done together...if your going out on your own bc you want to be up to no good you just threw trust out the window!!!

Trust can absolutely be regained in a relationship. I know from experience, I lost the trust and regained it back and it's now stronger then before.
I'm not saying it'll be easy but #1 You need to decide that you'll do whatever it takes.#2 You need to trust yourself first and by this I mean you need to know fully who you are and what you stand for and other people need to know what they can count on you for without you having to tell them. And #3 You need to be your word and by this I mean do what you say your gonna do. I'm an ex bodybuilder and now work as a relationship Coach, and so many guy's don't get this one. If you say something to your woman Do IT! Even if it seems small to you. Because women test their men to see if they can trust them or not. So BE YOUR WORD.