My wife kinda jumped me with the big "we should have kids this year" idea. I am all for it but really, I am not all for it. The more I think about it, the more I don't know how much I really want to spend 20 years raising children and further, not sure if I am ready. We just bought a house, we have been married 2 years but I am also only 2 years into my career and starting my masters, I don't know how to budget my time into all of those things. I suppose it doesn't help that I've just come off cycle and sex isnt exactly the first thing on my mind, let alone sex with a purpose.

I am not sure what signs would say "hey you are ready now" though. Always one more thing to buy or fix or become.

anyone been faced with this or are all the kiddos around here "accidents"?