I;ve been in a fairly similar situation. The kid wasn't living with us, but we were engaged ( beats me). Even though the women was not talking to him on the same basis like yours.. he basically managed to win by putting tons of strain on the relationship.

Its a long and paifull story.. the main point being is that I don';t know how getting serious with a women who has children and a dad in the picture can ever work.

The kids will always give him an in to terrorize you... she will be torn in half.. feeling guilty towards you and him. You can't ask her to stop contac becuz of kids etcd..

I will never have a GF again that has children. To me, it complicates things a lot, epecially when the ex is involved.. and honestly, who wants to deal with all the children crap when they are not yours.. yes its doable, but why?


Move on dude, things will always remain stressfull with him in the picture.. your better off alone