The one that got away

[BBbox]

What with all the break up talk lately, thought id ask how many other dudes (or ladies) out there have a "one that got away"?

Dunno how common it is really, so not sure what kind of response ill get.

Anyways I dated this one chick who was pretty much perfect... beautiful, smart, high aspirations, great family
I was young (still am i guess lol) and was dumb enough to do lil shit that made us fight all the time... never invited her out to party with me, always sort of distracted by something else, she said i never acted like I "appreciated her"
Lost her over stupid shit like that and still regret it... never found a girl yet that measures up.

Anyone else have this experience?

[69challenger]

Thankfully, don't have that experience. Happily (most of the time...lol) married to the ONE for me and I'm going to keep him for a looooooong, loooong time

[GYMBRAT]

almost 20 yrs for me already, f**k me ha thats a long time when one thinks bout it

[ubcpower]

highschool gf, shoulda never let her go

[kloan]

I have and 15 years later it still upsets me to think about....... I'll regret it til the day I find someone better... if I ever do.

[BBbox]

almost 20 yrs for me already, f**k me ha thats a long time when one thinks bout it

lucky guy

[BBbox]

living with something you seriously regret is the worst experience you can have really

"if only..."

glad to see it hasnt happened to very many

[Redz]

I dont really get the whole concept of the one that got away. There are too many variables to know what would have ended up happening anyways. Life deals us cards and we play them but theres always another card to turn over until the day we die.

[BBbox]

^^ really its about having that one chance where you had the PERFECT girl. but you dont realize it until its too late. Maybe there will be another who works for you but for some reason its just like noone is ever the same or can ever live up to it. hard to explain if you havent experienced it.

And you're right in saying that you never know what would have ended up happening in the end, but the regret you live with is that you didnt give it 100% so you dont know what could have been.

[countrychic]

I luckily found him and will keep him