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    Unhappy Breakups...

    Has anyone here had to break up with someone when youre both still really in love?

    My girlfriend and I broke up this morning. We fight often and have some trust issues. Neither of us were that happy anymore. We both still really love each other though. Weve broken up before, gotten back together, tried to make it work but it never really seems to fall into place. Breaking up was one of the hardest things weve both had to do...

    Anyways some suggestions for ways that have helped you dudes get over that kind of thing? Other than "go bang random hotties"?
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    If you love each other and its meant to be, it will, sometimes we just need to take a step back to see things from a diffrent angel,

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    Quote Originally Posted by BBbox View Post
    Has anyone here had to break up with someone when youre both still really in love?

    My girlfriend and I broke up this morning. We fight often and have some trust issues. Neither of us were that happy anymore. We both still really love each other though. Weve broken up before, gotten back together, tried to make it work but it never really seems to fall into place. Breaking up was one of the hardest things weve both had to do...

    Anyways some suggestions for ways that have helped you dudes get over that kind of thing? Other than "go bang random hotties"?
    take some time apart. you both have issues and must resolve them before going back into a relationship. if you dont resolve them I guaranty that same problem will arise in the next relationship.
    Also dont be afraid to go consult a psychotherapist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BBbox View Post
    Has anyone here had to break up with someone when youre both still really in love?

    My girlfriend and I broke up this morning. We fight often and have some trust issues. Neither of us were that happy anymore. We both still really love each other though. Weve broken up before, gotten back together, tried to make it work but it never really seems to fall into place. Breaking up was one of the hardest things weve both had to do...

    Anyways some suggestions for ways that have helped you dudes get over that kind of thing? Other than "go bang random hotties"?

    Well IMHO if you BOTH still love eachother a lot then I say get back together and agree to go get couples counsling bro.

    Love is very hard to find now a days and again IMHO if you guys want to be together then WORK at it harder then you work in the gym.

    Sometimes(most times lol) us guys need to back down and just do what she wants if we really love her and want to be with her. I don't mean be her bitch and let her do whatever she wants, i just mean we need to be very open and understanding.

    I wish i had a woman that loved me, ya sad i know....more pathetic i think.

    Don't be like me bro

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    Hang out with your guy friends who are mature and wont just take you to clubs to **** sluts. Hit the gym hard, play some sports...etc

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    Maybe you should work on you first.

    What can you do to have more peace with yourself?

    What can you do to love more your self?

    What can you learn from this break up?

    Love is really important but isn't everything in a relationship, communication, trust, respect, honesty are very important as well.

    May what both of you need right now is time apart to deal with your own stuff and this break up.

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    Maybe one of you should get a sex change?

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    You really need to work on your self like warlock said.

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    Who has the trust issues?Sounds done.Best therapy is to get ****ed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kloan View Post
    Maybe one of you should get a sex change?


 
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