Not like before...

[_Ragnar_]

Hey you know how hard it is to find a free kitten these days.

[PdH]

I've had 3 long-term relationships in my life and in all three sex was no longer available to me in either the same quantity or quality after we lived together for a while. Once they think they've got their hooks in you, things change for the worse. That said, I think men probably start to take women for granted in other ways in the same situation.

[natenator]

I've had 3 long-term relationships in my life and in all three sex was no longer available to me in either the same quantity or quality after we lived together for a while. Once they think they've got their hooks in you, things change for the worse. That said, I think men probably start to take women for granted in other ways in the same situation.

not me man. Finding a hot ass babe who can cook; clean and suck my dick like a hoover vacuum is NOT a girl I take for granted

[Big D]

I've had 3 long-term relationships in my life and in all three sex was no longer available to me in either the same quantity or quality after we lived together for a while. Once they think they've got their hooks in you, things change for the worse. That said, I think men probably start to take women for granted in other ways in the same situation.

thats not true, my girlfriend wants it all the time, i'm often the one that says no.

you guys just have to be better looking (that was a joke)

[ironwill]

not me man. Finding a hot ass babe who can cook; clean and suck my dick like a hoover vacuum is NOT a girl I take for granted

Damn straight....I guess im lucky, Im not the most romantic devil, Im pretty lazy around the housework etc, and i still get more than i can handle at many times.....lol...Damn redhead.....4 yrs living together....
But i am sexxxy!!!!

[monkey]

I have lived with three women and had a couple more somewhat longer ones...

1) Some are hornier than others.. the horny ones will want sex, no matter what. The "normal" women will want less sex than men in the long run.
At this point, I don\t even attempt a relationship with a girl who "likes" sex or does it to please you...

2) I find that there is often a "game" involved.. you show affection, they become bitches and vice verca. Most women have been the nicest when they felt that I didn't love them as much. Its stupid, but a lot of women (and probably ) men work that way.
Perhaps your just being a pussy, let her take control..

3) maybe you guys moved together too fast.. done that. It can reallly take momentum out of a relationship.. suddently she or he realizes this was too early.

4) She is banging the pool boy and you simply don't do it for her?:

[Mr Ontario]

use it as learning experience... not everyone is meant to be together.

[Aar0n]

I am recently a single man..
But when the ex and I were living together.. and she wasn't affectionate towards me.. More than likely I did something to piss her off. Just wait it out a couple of days. Take her out for dinner.. Go to the mall and buy her a pair of jeans.. or a t-shirt.. That should lift her spirits somewhat..

[physique]

I am recently a single man..
But when the ex and I were living together.. and she wasn't affectionate towards me.. More than likely I did something to piss her off. Just wait it out a couple of days. Take her out for dinner.. Go to the mall and buy her a pair of jeans.. or a t-shirt.. That should lift her spirits somewhat..

by doing this u are paying for sex.
if this is the route u choose, then find a hot hooker. at leats then they will go away when u are done with them.

no man shopuld have to buy his gf or wife something to get sex. just hot up POF u will find lots of horny women who want something discreet

[Aar0n]

You mentioned your girlfriend works full time. Maybe at work they put a lot of pressure on her and shes stressed out.. Or maybe she is drained by the time she gets home to you. And on her days off, maybe she just wants to sleep to get caught up?

There might even be a possibility that the dog is stressing her out. How old is the dog? You both work full time and have a new addition to the family. I've bred dogs and dogs pooping and shitting all over the floor.. It's like having a kid...

Physique, yes, you are right about buying dinner. Taking her shopping. All that leading up to paying for sex... I was thinking maybe it could be a nice gesture or a special night they could plan for. Get all dressed up and go some place nice and get some 1 to 1 interaction.. But again, you are right.

Another idea....Maybe you guys could plan a goal together. Both pitch in a few bucks every month (that way you're not paying for sex lol) Go to the mall together and get some travelling ideas. Set up a trip, a place and date. Than, both of you will have something to work towards and talk about.