Ever wonder if you are biologically destined to be alone?

I don't know i'm kind of the same. I am just a selfish person when it comes to relationships. I think i'll end up being single eventually, and will stay like that for a long time..

If I need sex i'll go out, if I need companionship i'll get a puppy

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biologically, no. psychologically, yes.

good shit.....

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Originally Posted by natenator

how is going out and banging randoms at the bar "work"??

What is true is that you need to have relationships with women to truly understand what you do and don't want in a partner. What are the deal breakers? You won't figure that out until you've actually dated women and by dating I don't mean 1 or 2 week "relationships" that are based solely on sex.

And I do think there are people out there that find the one early on in life. The problem is we grow and what might be the one for you at 25 or 35 or 45 may not be the one for you at other ages or stages in your life.

Being in a relationship is about sharing your life with someone. Victories sweetened and defeats softened because it was done together. Someone you see after a bad day and instantly you forget about your issues. Someone who makes you smile when they aren't even in the same country as you. That's a relationship. You don't discover that after one night of sex with some random bar babe.

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Weird, What is meant by "Work" is exactly what you typed out I never meant to say banging randoms at the bar is nessecary to find someone worth spending your life with.

I just meant nothing comes for free in this life so you gotta "work" to get what you want, seems like everyone these days has this bizzare sense of entitlement where they feel like they should be rewarded for just existing.

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Originally Posted by Danger

seems like everyone these days has this bizzare sense of entitlement where they feel like they should be rewarded for just existing.

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true

you know, not everyone in the age group 19-27 is easy when they go out to the bar ad have a few drinks....Take time find out what makes you love yourself, then you can work on loving someone else..Everyone gets to the point at some age where they are ready to settle down. I know I have started thinking about it myself now at 26. But then again, I also finally know myself and love myself.

One other thing though, Don't be someone who gets in a relationship then lets themselves go. I hate it when guys and girls do this. Manly the girls, its like they get you then gain about 30lbs in four months, wtf????

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Originally Posted by ironwill

It took me until my mid thirties to want to settle down, I thought i was going to be an old man, rockin the ol fogie homes....lol....I seriously did......
Then things started clicking in, and one thing led to another, and i happened to meet the right lady at the right time in my life.......
CC and i talked about it, and she is glad, and im glad we never met earlier, she would have just thought i was a pig, and a drunkard etc....I might have got a one nighter out of her anyway, because i am pretty damn sexy and hard to resist....lol...But i wouldnt have her in my life now......
I think it hits us all at one point and the stars align, its important to have stuff in common, im sure of that....Youre still young, hell have fun, it will happen when you least expect it...

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....I agree, timing has alot to do with it and common interests do help. The love bug will bite you in the a*s when u least expect it and when it does, you will know!! Good-luck!!