Quote Originally Posted by Danger View Post
I think Ironwills got his shit figured out, I always figured I would end up being with a ton of women before I would ever find one worth staying with. I mean really if you seriously want to be with a quality woman is it really strange to think it might take years and meeting a ton of women to find the one or do people really expect exceptional things to just fall into their lap without any work or something?
how is going out and banging randoms at the bar "work"??

What is true is that you need to have relationships with women to truly understand what you do and don't want in a partner. What are the deal breakers? You won't figure that out until you've actually dated women and by dating I don't mean 1 or 2 week "relationships" that are based solely on sex.

And I do think there are people out there that find the one early on in life. The problem is we grow and what might be the one for you at 25 or 35 or 45 may not be the one for you at other ages or stages in your life.

Being in a relationship is about sharing your life with someone. Victories sweetened and defeats softened because it was done together. Someone you see after a bad day and instantly you forget about your issues. Someone who makes you smile when they aren't even in the same country as you. That's a relationship. You don't discover that after one night of sex with some random bar babe.