Quote Originally Posted by Flexxx View Post
As for the money aspect, if you get paid back, and you stick around keep your accounts seperate. She obviously does not have the responsibility to manage hers. 2 years of not paying GST. They send MANY letters and phone calls about that. Trust me I run a business as well and had my accounts seized years ago for no payment (I wasn't making enough money to pay them).

As for her as a person. You might be more understanding than me, but I might be selfish or possessive, but if my wife ever cheated on me, or worse yet, planned a sexual escapade with coworker, she would be out of my life for good. I have always trusted women until they give me a reason not to. Once that happens I could never trust them again.

Sorry to hear you are getting stringed around so much, women can really mess with us. Gonna need years of therapy by the sounds of it to trust one fully again.

Not sure how old you are, but she sounds very immature, even for a 21 year old. I always found the young ones nices to look at, but as soon as they open their mouth it kills it for me.
how do u not make enough money to pay them???? u collect gst on everything u sell. smart people set aside their gst in a separate account so its always there when its time to pay it.

but thats another story. as for rhino

i would cut your losses after she pays u back. but for right now severe her from the business and the business bank account. and keep all communication to a minimum. she isnt good for you. using her age as excuse isnt good man. if at 21 she has no morals, then she will never learn them. u can look at every excuse in the books and u know what to do deep down. its hard yes, but u sound like a smart man, cut your losses and move on.

who knows maybe u will cross paths again down the road and maybe she will change, but for now, i would get out